Tuesday, June 29, 2010

An Encouraging Experience


I spent much of today plotting and planning our next school year's first term. All four kids are enjoying their mornings this week at a local Vacation Bible School, and I'm making the most of my quiet time, a cup'pa tea totally included and required.

When my four lovlies came home, my oldest lovely wanted to know how I had spent my time alone, as if she couldn't imagine that I would have anything to do but twiddle my thumbs--boy! Wouldn't that be nice, if only once in a while?

I told her that I spent my morning creating her schedule for fall's new term. She thought for a moment and asked, "Will I be reading The Lord of the Rings series slowly like I read The Hobbit this year, or is the series on my 'free reading' list?" I informed her while smiling--totally assuming she was feeling like "Bring it on already!"--that she was free to read the books whenever and however she wished because the series was indeed on her free reading list. She sighed.

Whaa?! What did I say wrong?

"Well, I think The Hobbit was my favorite book this year because I read it slowly; you know, my brain got to simmer and think about it for a few days before I read another chapter. I just prefer reading like that and hoped that the next books were scheduled slowly, since the books I read faster I don't really enjoy or retain as much."

Wow.

Yep.

(((thumbs way up, Charlotte Mason))) Forget the side-hug. I'm going full-virtual-frontal because I heart YOU.

...although now I have more work to do.

8 comments:

  1. Wow...affirmation...a good thing!

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  2. Shannon: Yep! I'm so lovin' this. :)

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  3. That is so great! Your dd sounds like a thinker. My oldest had a love/hate relationship with reading slowly. If it was a book he didn't like he especially despised it. I realized that was one way I could exasperate my children so am careful about the books I pick for them to read this way. Sounds like you pick good ones!

    I just found your blog and noticed that you have some of my favorite books on your list you have read this year! I loved When Life and Beliefs Collide. It would almost be easier to tell you which books I haven't read. :)

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  4. Wayside: She IS a thinker! So, when she complains about a book, we talk about it. Usually, she has a valid point. For instance, AO's recommended book in Year 6 for Nature Study is Rachel Carson's The Sea Around Us. It's a big and meaty book, meant to be read uber-slowly, which we did. But, halfway through the school year, I asked my daughter which book was her favorite and which her least fav. She loathed Carson's book and not for the reasons I thought she'd give, like it's too big, too long, too much new vocabulary. For her, it was too much evolutionary teaching, which went against her conviction of a much younger Earth totally formed of God's hand. She asked if she could read something else that taught more about the seas and less about evolutionary theory.

    That's a change I can get behind!

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  5. Completely and totally love those CM moments!

    ...and good for Olivia for putting up her shield of faith. Laura, do take a look at Creation Science Evangelism's book store for a replacement.

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  6. This is so great, and totally encouraging to me. I sometimes second guess having my kids read slowly, so this is a great testament to the benefits. Thank you!

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  7. Yep, Too cool!

    Time for a new blog post about now, Laura-girl...

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