The trouble doesn't lie so much in the relationships--only as much as being separated for three years before recently reconciling creates--but in the fact that we have a very teeny weeny home, and I have huge personal space issues. I already feel tense and we're three weeks away from showdown. This week will begin the household tackle, one major area each week until they arrive. God help it stay clean, although I will easily and totally blame the kids if it doesn't.
But, the primary trouble lies in the fact that we eat very differently than they, and my MIL has pretty much scared my socks off by declaring her fear of the food I may place before them.
Can you say fight or flight?
So, if y'all have any ideas how we can bridge the gap between whole foods and not, please, please pass on a recipe or four, um'kay?
Here's this week ((still cleaning out the freezer)):
MONDAY
Breakfast~Applesauce Bread & Yogurt Smoothies
Lunch~Toasted Bagels w/Cheese, Cucumber & Oranges
Dinner~Beef Roast, Mashed; Broccoli, Carrot & Pepper Medley
TUESDAY
Breakfast~Oatmeal & Oranges
Lunch~PB & Honey Sandwiches, Carrots & Apples ((Can you say SUNNY & 70 PICNIC?! Don't hate))
Dinner~Bacon-Spinach Frittata, Fruit Salad
WEDNESDAY
Breakfast~WW Banana-Chocolate Chip Muffins ((using WW pastry flour, so forget about the all-purpose bologna)), Oranges
Lunch~Grilled Cheddar Cheese Sandwiches, Cucumbers & Apples
Dinner~Asian-Ginger Grilled Chicken over Napa Cabbage Salad
THURSDAY
Breakfast~Oatmeal & Oranges
Lunch~Veggie Udon Soup
Dinner~Salmon Cakes, Baked Fries, Spinach Salad
FRIDAY
Breakfast~Leftover Banana-Chocolate Chip Muffins
Lunch~Egg Salad on Toast, Spinach Salad
Dinner~Pizza & Green Salad
SATURDAY
Brunch~Swedish Pancake, Turkey Sausages, All Fruit Dump Salad
Dinner~Spaghetti & Meatballs, All Veggie Dump Medley
SUNDAY
Breakfast~Banana-Oatmeal Bread w/Toasted Pecans & Yogurt Smoothies
Lunch~Grilled Provolone Cheese Sandwiches & Hearty Tomato Soup
Dinner~Leftover Buffet
Shoot your rocket over to The Organizing Junkie for more menu plans than you could ever have the time to read, unless you are independently wealthy and have no children pulling on your menu-loving sleeve. But don't forget to post some help with my FEEDING THE IN-LAWS dilemma!!
Have an inspired week, y'all!
Great menu. And I love your widget! very very cool!
ReplyDeleteHmmm...wow...!!! LOL
ReplyDeleteNow, what is her fear about what you're serving? Because it's too healthy? I think the only medium is to just have her cook her own food..LOL. I know that sounds rude, but she is going to your house. She should eat what you fix. I know that is easier said than done, but if she see's there is no other choice, she'll either starve, eat your food, or get her own.
??? What do they eat? Your menu sounds great and very normal.
ReplyDeleteBTW, (((hugs)) in advance. I am the EXACT same way. HUGE, HUGE personal space issues and I'd probably be breaking out in hives 3 weeks before my inlaws show up.
Sounds fantastic to me! The food I mean. I can't think what they might worry about. Maybe just keep it simple. I would do shepherds Pie and vegetables, roast chicken and vegetables, lasagne, baked ham with salad and jackets. If she can help cook then maybe she can let you know what she likes to eat - stupid idea! You surely don't need someone else in the kitchen!!
ReplyDeleteI will pray for good weather so that you can all be out for the day!! :-)
I wish I could help you, but I have the same trouble with my MIL. She puts sugar in EVERYTHING... even mashed potatoes. When I'm at her house and she makes mashed potatoes, she sets some aside for me without the sugar! :-) But at my house, I've gotten lots of comments and looks... but over the last several years (we've been married for 14 come May) she's actually starting to come around... a little!
ReplyDeleteMy in-laws moved in with us last year so the best advice I can give is to face your giants as did David, by relying on the strength of the Lord and not your own.
ReplyDeleteDon't forget, "pleasant words are a honeycomb..." - any wayward remarks about food can be answered with a simple "Thank you for your concern."